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writes:My married lover lately has mentioned these fantasies where we are caught in the act by her (female) roommate, that roommate's boyfriend, or even her husband. Sometimes we act them out and she gets very, very turned on. She will cum for me (hard for her to do sometimes) and even allow me to do the most degrading things to her in these fantasies. I find it really gets me off to see her so horny and turned on.My question is:Is this just harmless fantasy roleplay or is she really hinting that she wants us to be caught in the act?Fantasy is going to be a lot better than reality from my perspective, but I sometimes have the hint that she really is testing to see what might happen (example: how I might react) if we are caught. I have half a mind to ask her if this is just a fantasy, but I feel I might insult her and may not get the truth anyway. What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2012): OP again -I guess what I failed to relate is that I am concerned that SHE will try to make the fantasy happen by placing us in a position to get caught. It seems to get her of, but because she is married that could end up horribly.I guess this goes back to what So_Very_Confused said, which is why would she ever do that? I wouldn't know. People do weird things. However, the fantasies are getting more "real." For instance, we had sex in her bedroom when her roomie was home. We wouldn't usually risk that. We have had sex in the living room, which places us at risk if someone should suddenly come up to the front door. This is exciting, but I am worried we WILL get caught if we keep this up and I am wondering if this is ultimately what she wants to happen.
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (11 April 2012):
 I think if you want to know, then you need to ask her. I certainly hope that the part about getting caught by her husband is and remains a fantasy. But it would serve you both right if you get caught.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 April 2012):
 I'm sure it's fantasy.... what would the point be of getting caught?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (11 April 2012):
 Sounds like she feels guilty for cheating on her husband, which she should.
These kinds of fantasies are better as fantasy. It just isn't that exciting to actually get caught, the thrill for most is in thinking they might get caught. For instance telling her that your roommate is going to be home any second.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 April 2012):
 I think it's better to leave it a fantasy anyway.
It would probably be such an anticlimax if it did happen !
Because, what do you think it would happen in practice ? I'll tell you. 9 and a half timesm out of 10, her roommate or the roomie 's bf would just say " Oops ! Sorry " and turn around, gently closing the door behind them. SO lackluster...
Well, I guess it could be different if you should be caught in the act by her husband. But I would not advise you to try, that too may not be half as fun as you think, for different reasons...
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