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female
age
36-40,
*aloni
writes: My much older brother and I know this girl for several years. Ever since he took control of our social club, he started to change. He use to be nice to everyone, especially her. But now, he acts uneasy around her. Ignores her and unconcerned about her. Recently, they worked together again after only a few times. According to one of their close friends, this time, they chatted and laughed for hours. This was weird, as no one has ever seen them act so familiar with each other. But their friend said when his body accidentally touches hers; he quickly draws it always as though he was scorning her. Funny thing is, during the time when he's the one talking; the friend was in the car with them when he said she notices that my brother kept touching her with his finger on her arm, when he was taking directly to her. The work that they do involves walking long distances at times. He spent the entire day with her. However, a week after that, she told another friend that he acted weird and said he seemed to want to make short-cuts or deviate from her when they are in the open. She said he mentioned about whether or not she 'was tired and needed to go home'. However, the next day after this, something strange happened. My brother was conducting their club meeting. And at first, he seems cool with her allowing her to answer some of the questions. Then suddenly, he started acting strangle with her a he usually did. Ignoring any further attempts by her to comment or give and answer. I was beginning to wonder what could have happened the day before. I saw her got up and left the room, close to the end of the discussion. Later, she came back for the last part of the meeting. After it ended, she got up and left again to go to the other part of the building where most of the members were chatting up. Then, one close female friend was sitting there for the second session. She seems (as she usually appear in front of some of the members), to have a flirtatious body language towards my brother. I don’t really talk to her because she acts like she’s above the rest of us. His behavior was that opposite of what their friend told me about the day before. The next day, after our meeting, I saw her come to one of our early morning club meetings. He was not there when it started. She sat at the very front. This time, for the first, she had her hair pinned up in the back with longs bangs on each side. (All of us girls try this once in awhile).Anyway, more people started to come late, including my always late brother. Without her even realizing that he was there, He quietly sat just two rows behind her while his wife sat on the other side of the room. Don’t ask me why, but ever since certain people have wondering why they act so weird, I took t upon myself to watch them closely. I have not mentioned anything to him, because I don’t want to start something I’m not sure I can stop. Anyway, later in the meeting, he mentioned that he was not planning on staying for the entire activity, but had to stick around to do some work. When the meeting was over, and most of the members walked out, he stood in the middle of the doorway before she could leave. Then, he unknowingly, moved a little out of the way by the time she was to leave. But before, instead of asking him to move, she just stood there hoping that he would without seeing her. Then she just jolted pass him without saying a word of greeting to him. When she was a little distance away, he just shot a look of shock at her without her realizing it, and proceeded with his conversation with one of the other members. The other day, he was planning a party for the club. I noticed that he has been calling her more and more on her phone to ask for favors regarding the party. Other club members also have to help us. But usually, he never calls her to do anything. A bell was going off in my head. According to what I was hearing afterwards, she told some people in the club that he was bothering her with calls, even when she was not feeling well to do anything. After that, he just made sure that he did not show up to the small club meetings after their last phone conversation. No one has seen him for a few days. She's still claiming to be sick up to now. Then when she came to help with some work at the club, he was walking around staring at her from corner to corner while talking on the phone where no one could see him. Please tell me what could be going on here?
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (12 April 2012):
 What's stopping you from asking your brother?
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (12 April 2012):
 It's really lovely that you care so much about your brother but it's really none of your business what is going on, it's between him and her.
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