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writes:Hi.Knowing these facts about someone, would you believe they had sex (between a male and a female):First off, the let's say person A, is a usually a very honest person, hates condoning bad behaviour or mindsets and is shown everyday through speech and actions as evidence.They were friends but never talked in the past much. They just seen each other around through mutual friends.Person A moved in with the other while looking for an apartment because the other suggested so now they are roommates.Slept in the same bed for two months but nothing happens because Person A told you that they find the roommate ugly, repulsive, and unhygenic.When meeting you, Person A used to make the roommate drive them to your place and told roommate that Person A is at their same gender friend's house drinking. And made roommate pick them up at 2 in the morning back home. This goes on for about 3 weeks.After you and Person A establish a relationship and make it exclusive, Person A does not tell roommate and make you hide a bit when showed up early for times of meet at Person A's apartment. Roommate goes to work from 2pm to 10pm.Person A tells you they lead roommate on to make roommate buy things for Person A.But they did label themselves as bf/gf a month or so during the time they moved in together to see what their mutual friends would say.After ditching roommate after two months of living together to move in with you, they have fights over phone for personal belongings and money. The cops was involved but it was over a small amount, rent.Roommate was ditched while roommate was on vacation and didn't know.Person A was seeing you about a month later Person A moved in with roommate.When confronted about it, Person A cries and says how you could even believe they would have sex with such a pig.What are your thoughts?I honestly don't believe anyone would be lead on for that long without getting something out of it. I'm skeptical.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (12 April 2012):
 I'm sorry I agree with Cindy... whether or not they were sleeping together does not matter... Person A is a liar and a manipulative user.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 April 2012):
 Oh people can be led on for loooong period of times, if the person leading them on is clever, and if they want to close their eyes in front of evidence.
What personally I would have a big issue with, is Person A calling herself a sincere and moral person, and not condoning bad behaviour, while in the meantime leading roommate on to make roomate buy them things. I think this is quite sick- how's that sincere and moral and good behaviour ??
Also, ditching roommate while he is in vacation and does not know anything about it is not so aboveboard and sincere.
All in all, I'd say that Person A is sly and manipulative, regardless of having had sex or not with her roommate.
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