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writes:Hey all. Il give a bit of background to the situation. I have this friend whos a lad, we relly close am gay and he doesn't know. I think he is gay but maybe bi. We're close hes the only male friend am really close to cus most of my mates are girls. But we go shopping together etc. Hes quite boyish plays footie make rude jokes etc. Recently we have been really close his gran died a month ago and am the only friend he has told. I was at his house playing xbox and he told me what had happened to his gran. I wasn't really thinking and i gave him a hug a big hug he hugged me back. We sat on the bed and talked for ages we were really close while to talking. That night i was had a sleep over at my house he came over. And we played truth or dare. We then started wrestling and it turned qiute gay he was on top of me making rude gestures. That night he creep into my bed and he said would you ever kiss a boy i said would you? And he said well i dont know maybe and then we started kissing. The rest of the day was really weird i couldnt stop thinking about what had happened. i dont know whether he is gay or not though cus he is very boyish always talks about girls plays football. and he not your typical gay looking lad. we havent spoken since that day which was a week ago wat should i say do? sorry the qestion is not very clear its a long story made short. but the question is what should i say to him. cheers. xx =)
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reader, Dataluke +, writes (12 April 2012):
 I don't think there is a stereotypical gay lad for him to look or act like. He could very well be gay or bi, you don't know.
Either way, you shouldn't let this come between you guys. You are obviously really close friends and you need to at least talk to him. Eventually you will have to address what happened and talk to him about it. If he doesn't want to give you a firm answer then that's his prerogative.
Don't put it off for long or it will become too awkward.
All the best, Dataluke
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 April 2012):
 I am not sure if he is gay or not, nobody can answer that except for him, but it is clear that he is curious. Don't allow it to become awkward between the both of you. Tell him you still want to be friends, and just take it from there and see how it goes. You are both still very young and there is no need to put pressure on either of you just try and talk things out so it is not awkward between the both of you.
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (11 April 2012):
 What is a typical gay looking lad look like? I am sure you will find that they are not as stereotyped as you think.
You can't tell whether he is gay or whatever from that one night. He may have just been experimenting. He may be unsure himself. You don't have to say anything to him. Maybe you could just hang out and let whatever will happen just happen.
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