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*andymetal
writes:I know this looks really long but please read Thanks ?Well I’m not sure about this guy whether he fancies me or not. we don’t know each other he works at a shop and I go there once or twice a week, I don’t always see him but anyway this started months ago I was just walking down one of the aisles and he was coming towards me and I looked up and he was looking at me so I sorta smiled and he gave me a half smile, he noticed me first then whenever I saw him I would look if I passed him and he would smile, never spoke I guessed this was because I was either with my sister or mum this went on for a couple of months then when I was at the shop alone I passed by him and he looked and said hi you alright, since then every time he sees me when I’m with others he will look as he passes like at the last minute and like nod his and smile, then the next time I passed him on my own he looked up as I passed and said hi u alright then seemed a bit awkward so I tried to make convo and asked him something he chatted but like it was just left hanging a bit awkward then he said see u later as I walked away. next time I saw him a few of his guy colleagues were around and he seemed like he didn’t know where to look, but when he was on his own he smiled at me another time I passed him on my own and he said hi u alright I smiled said hi back but neither of us said anything more so I deliberately passed him again saying I’ve forgot something and he smiled and as I walked away said “that’s because you’re wandering around” with a grin on his face but didn’t look as he said it then another time he seemed to ignore me. I just feel like he’s so awkward he is really out going with his guy mates don’t think I have seen him talking to girls, oh and he’s really good looking!I’m supposedly very pretty I’m not being conceited lol its just I’ve had this said to me by both men and women of all ages, a lot have gone as far as to say stunning/beautiful :pSo anyway I just don’t know if he fancies me, isn’t sure how I feel or does he know I like him and is he just speaking cos he feels he has to? You know like being polite? Is he ignoring me ‘cos he doesn’t want me to like him?Sorry I’ve gone on and on I just what some general opinionsThanks
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reader, jeeni  +, writes (14 April 2012):
hey i think the guy likes you or he has a crush on u it happened with me too n yes this guy is avoiding you because he thinks that you are too easy ....n yeah babe guys hate easy girls they think its not worth ...next time you see him ..n u ignore him ...just see his reaction believe me he will love to chase u or his insecurity or curiosity will arise what hpnd to this girl ?? y didnt she smile??? n hell lot of ques ...!!! p.s dont over do it ...yah u can smile sometimes but not always and dont always initiate the conversation even simple hii also ....hope this has helpd u good luck
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