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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey, right this might be abit confussing so sorry in advance. before i met my ex i signed up to this dating site, i admit i didnt want nothing from it just one of the girls was on about it so i thought id give it ago. through this site i met this boy, he seem really nice but he lives in england and im from wales. we did swap numbers and started texting. i then met my ex which i was with for a year and split with about 5 months ago. the boy i met of the site knew i met my ex and knew i was in a realtionship but we decided to carry on texting as frinds. me and my ex then split, due to him cheating and i went though a really bad patch (well am much better but still miss him so much). this boy from the site started telling me he loves me and that he wants us to try a long distance realtionship. i wasnt to sure of this and told him we need to met before we decied anything like this. but then about a month ago i met this guy in town on a night out. as i was still cut up about my split i wasnt sure what to do but did give this boy my number. he tryed texting me but i just ignored him, and he stoped texting. but the other day this boy from town texted me and we met up and got alone really well. we are sort of still texting. but the boy i met from the site doesnt know. now im not sure what to do, should i stop texting the boy from the site as we havnt met yet and been texting for about a year, but i would miss having our chats and texts, as i do like him or should i give this boy i met in town a chance, or should i just forcus on fully getting over my ex? please help? p.s sorry if its a bit confussing
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 October 2011):
 You need to do what makes you happy. Lets start with your ex. I understand that you are still not fully over him but you are getting better which is progress and he was unfaithful to you therefore am sure that is enough for you never to take him back again. As for the guy from the website. Well a year is a long time to be chatting without meeting. I really don't see a relationship working out between the both of you, as you are still very young and there is a big distance between you. It would be like having a relationship with your phone and computer. He says he loves you, but am a true believer that you cannot be in love with someone until you have both spend quality time physically together and not over a computer.
As for this guy you met in the town. You enjoyed yourself with him, so why not give him a chance and see where it goes. Don't put any pressure on yourself just give yourself a chance to move on. Enjoy his company and getting to know him and see what happens. Off course the choice is up to you at the end of the day.
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