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writes:A girl I met recently added me to Facebook and we had a 2-3 hr conversation on fb. I've met her a couple of times and both times she was very nice and laughed at all my jokes and all that usual stuff. On the second time I met her I even touched her hand as part of one of my stories and she didn't back off. The thing is though I happened to be looking through her fb wall before we chatted and saw that there was this conversation (about two weeks back) she had with a guy who she also just met coss he said thanks for the add on her wall. They went on to have a reasonable conversation on the wall about 12 comments long. Just from the conversation alone I have a feeling he might also be interested in her or vice versa. After we had our 2 hr conversation, which for some reason included looking at each others profiles, I went back to her wall and now I can't find that post that the guy made on her wall. So she must have deleted it coss she didn't want me to see it. When I search for him under her friends list I can't find him either (but she is still a mutual friend if I search Facebook for him)So girls why would she delete that comment from her wall? What could she be up to?
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reader, 1sunshine  +, writes (3 October 2011):
 My boyfriend and I are friends on fb also. We met on Zoosk an online dating site (it's part of fb) I am always deleting posts on there from my guy friends... sometimes they are obnoxious, ect... I don't want him to see them. I think it's good that your girlfriend deleted those posts from her old conversation from that guy. She prob. just didn't want you to see them because they meant nothing to her and didn't want you to get offended or jealous. :) I wouldn't worry about it and enjoy your relationship now.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (3 October 2011):
 She likes you and she doesnt want to jeopardize her chances with you. The chat with the other guy meant nothing to her; it was maybe just a by-the-way thing. Yet she probably felt that if you looked at her wall and saw the chat, you might not like it; that is why she deleted it. Stop over-analyzing things. She likes you and you like her...this could lead to something wonderful! Dont be so suspicious and snoopy even before anything's started!
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (3 October 2011):
 if the convo with the other guy was there before you and her chatted and now it is gone this could mean that she doesn't want you to know in case you get jealous about her chatting to other guys. she likes you and doesn't want anything to cause a problem between you. she has not given you any reason to mistrust her so just put a bit of faith into this and stop worrying or else you will ruin things before they have started
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (3 October 2011):
Do you know that you are facebook stalking this girl? Who really knows why she deleted the comment, and is it really important anyway? You have insecure tendancies and you need to keep them in check if you want to start a relationship with this girl.
You say "What could she be up to" Well if she knew you were already being so paranoid and controlling, she'd have nothing more to do with you. Chill out and stop being so needy.
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