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male
age
36-40,
*reshApple
writes:Hey guys,I am a senior in college but have never been on a date function. I have the opportunity to attend one this this weekend. There is this girl that I really like but we have never talked. She is in a different major but we have close mutual friends. I have few questions:1. How do I ask her out for the date function? Is it OK if I ask her indirectly through our mutual friends?2. How does date-function work? I am referring to the very basic things that I was supposed to learn my first year ;)3. What is a “gentleman” vs an “a-hole” expected to do/behave like? I should mention that I am among a group of athletes, so they can easily cross the line and go from a gentleman to something else…I don’t wanna fall in that category :)Your help and advice is greatly appreciated. This is a great opportunity that I don’t know how often may happenThanks,FreshApple Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 October 2011):
 The best way to ask her to this event is to ask her yourself. It sounds very child like to ask her through mutual friends. That is something that you do when you are in your early teen years. Just pluck up the courage to go up and say hello to her and ask her is she free that night to attend with you. The worst that she can say is no. Importantly just be yourself. You ask how you should behave but really there is no point in acting as someone else just be yourself. Get to know her ask her about herself and just relax and enjoy yourself. Don't try and put pressure on yourself to be something that you are not.
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