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anonymous
writes:Hi, My girlfriend and I has been together for one year and 3 months. In the beginning of our relationship (2 weeks in) she went to a place where people partying their ass off (a place for girls to get laid with many guys without being judged). À place like Ibiza or something.Now, à month ago, she told me (after been asked for a thousand times) that she slept with a guy when she was away partying.This has turned my life and relationship to a living hell. Our relationship has grown enourmosly since it happened which is why Im not breaking up with her directly.She tells me that she regrets it so much and she is truly sad about it.Before everything this we were together à short time and I dumped her twice, so she couldnt take this (Third) time we got together seriously and explains to me that it happened because she was insecure of the relationship. Im not sure what to do, I love her and I know that our relationship has grown and that she has changed, but im so sad and I dont know how to get rid of the images in My head.What should I do? She has changed, it happened in the beginning of this relation, and I dumped her before (=she couldnt trust me)But im so SAd that she lied for such à long time and because I cant get rid of the images of him banging her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2011): Well, I also want to hear your opinions about this kind of cheating. She was drunk and had probably very good sex with this Guy she had been flirting with, that makes me jealous.
Would you dump her? Or does it matter that she has been heartbreaked by me before and therefore been insecure of our relationship. Or Is it bullshit, would it happen anyways, if she was in love with me by the moment?
What should I do guys?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 October 2011):
 Well it sounds to me like you don't look at breaking up as an option. Therefore I guess when it comes to the images you will need to just try and forget about it. I know that it is hard and it will take some time. When you find yourself thinking about it do something to distract yourself. Plus remember it is you she is with not this other guy. You are the one that she wants to be with. Yes she was wrong to lie about it for so long. It will take some time for you to get over it. But just give yourself time.
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