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writes:ive been in an open relation with my boyfriend for a few months now and even though it is an open relationship i feel guilty for wanting someone else.im flirting with another guy that im madly and truelly in love with and i keep getting a really bad feeling about doing it... im not copletely sure why though because my boyfriend cheated on me just because i wouldnt go all the way with him hence the open relation its not like i was holding all out i just felt uncompfortable with doing everything.im not sure why i feel this way he did me wrong and now i feel guilty for doing something that is acceptable, please some help :S x
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (14 May 2010):
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it sounds to me like you do not find an open relationship emotionally acceptable, its sounds like an idea that was thrown in the air to save your relationship after your boyfriend cheated on you. it sounds like you are already beggining to find new options in this new man and rather than sleep with him while still in a relationship sending a bad message to the new man, you want to wait and ditch the current cheating boyfriend. your current boyfriend cheated on you because you wouldn't have sex fast enough, wants an open relationship and it sounds like he isn't into the sort of relationship you want. your emotions tell you what you really want- just read them and leave this uncomfortable situation and start afresh with the new man and see where it goes.
good luck
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