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anonymous
writes:hey guysIm in a dilemma, i would have never thought a day would come for me to seek advice from a forum,I started dating a girl whom i used to totally admire, prior to us dating i was coming out of 2 year relationship so i told my current girl to take it slow...she seemed fine with it from the beginning however it started to change as she felt she was competing for my attention with my x.One thing i mentioned to her was i still do talk to my x but we are not intimately together and she was cool with it as long as she is aware...things started changing as she believed she was living under my x shadow. i tried to convince her otherwise but it bared no fruit.the relationship got nasty and we terribly parted ways so to speak my x who was a friend was around so she decided to take out because i was down. I suppose one of her friends saw me as that evening i got nasty voice mails from her and i tried to reason with her but with no avail... i still do care about her and i dont know how to reach out to her. Reply to this Question
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reader, missyd  +, writes (14 May 2010):
you know us girls we're very itchy about the X file. i think she's kind of worried about just being the "rebound" girl.
You know when you've done with someone and just want to have fun with a girl without settling.
Tell her how you feel about her and make it very clear about your ex that it's done once and for all. And if needed put some distance with your ex. she needs to be comforted in the fact that you love her. she may be not so confident about herself and may have had bad past experiences.
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