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female
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30-35,
*teph.clark
writes:i have a friend, who i've known for about 7 or 8 months now. i've always thought he was really good looking and always fancied him, but when we became friends i decided to ignore it and keep quite about it.recently though, i've realised i have feelings for him we get on really well together, we have the same scence of humour, and we always have a good time when we hang out together.the only problem is, he has a girlfriend who he has been going out with for about a year now. although he is constantly saying how unhappy he is with her and that he keeps trying to break up with her, yet whenever i see them together, they seem happy.im really confused and dont know weather to say something to him about how i feel, against the advice of my friends, who say i should keep quiet about it.
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reader, scotfish +, writes (16 May 2010):
 You should stay quiet for now as your friends say, if you did say anything it could likely damage or totally ruin your friendship which of course is not what you want, all you can do is be there for him, if his relationship is wrong and they don't want to be together then they will more than likely end and when he has gotten over that and is ready to be with somebody else and you still feel the same way then that would be the time to think about telling him how you feel, i hope that everything goes well for you i understand how bad it must make you feel
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