Could it be obsession or destiny?

A female age 41-50, *onelygrl33 writes:

i am really confused, i had this guy that had a major crush on me back when we where in elementary school, we met on his first day of school, i was playing hop scotch with my friends and my mom started talking to his mom, i noticed him immediately and well my mom called me over and as i approached them he was just staring at me, so my mom tells me this is john he is new to school can you show him to class, comes out being he was in my class, make a short story, you can imagine the rest for 4 years we where inseparable i really likes him but never told him, he fell head over heels for me and always told me but i always blew him off because we where young and i was scared, last year in school he decided he wanted to be a priest, yes i know what you thinking, but he said if i was never going to give him a chance he was going to try something new he told me back before he left that he would never fall in love with any other girl because in the end i was always going to be his,but he went into the seminary, i never got to tell him my true feelings, i cried for a year in a half and we lost contact. 21 years have passed and he found me, at the time we both lived in new york, he left the seminary 4 years after leaving looking for me and never found me, he has search every where he said for me, till recently he moved to goergia created a facebook account and the first person he searched for was me he saw my picture and new that it was me, he requested me as a friend and i accepted him thinking he was an old friend from puerto rico, due to he was going under a different name till he writes on my wall i told you i would never forget you and you never believed me it has taken me 21 years and i finally found you and then he adds the name of the school and it hit me omg it cant be, but it was. he has never gotten married, he has had 2 lived in girl friends but nothing serious where he ever wanted to get married, now he is ready to settle down and have a family, so thats where i come in, we have been talking and he tells me he has never stop thinking of me, that destiny has reunited us and he wants to see me, we are like no time has passed we talk like nothing, like we have always been talking for over 21 years, he says i am the women he is going to marry he fell in love with the little girl back 21 years ago and now he is in love with the women i have become and to top it off my feelings are still there like they have never gone away, i am scared, because one it has been a long time people tell me u sure he isn't a psycho because to have feelings for someone for 21 years is a long time, but the thing is i have the same ones i had them when he was a boy and now i have them for the men he has become, we have been talking for a while and i am scared to see him, he tells me if he has to wait 21 years for me more he will but i am not going anywhere because we where meant for each other i feel that to, but i dont know what to do?

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