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writes:been with wife 18 yrs, we have 4 kids,15,12,7,4.luv them dearly.but don't love wife anymore.nothing about her.i was hurt on the job? no support finanical,with the kids. want work,except part time.feel very let down by her.living off settlement,feels she will never help.should i leave?really sad.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (25 July 2008):
 Hi Sweetheart
Loosing your job through anything and not getting help other than benifits will and can get you very down. Four children are alot of resposability for you both and if you were hurt then your wife surely would have wanted to be there for the children and you. If your not well she has to be there for the children so you can get rest and all the worry you are going through could be depression due to this accident and your living conditions now, Being so different from before hunny..I think you should talk with your wife love maybe just maybe wires have got crossed because of all this stress on you and her as well causing huge amounts of pressure, Walking away sweetheart may not be the answer I can very much understand your pain, And I do hope things improve very soon TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): im sorry about whats happening your marriage but did talk to her how you feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): wo, dude.
not to be rude,
but i did the math.
and if you and your wife have been together for 18 years...
then there is no way that you fall in the age category that you have placed yourself. =]]
and as for the advice:
have you talked to her about it?
because she might honesty feel as if that is all she can do for them...
or as if she feels she shouldnt be away from you all the time...
there could be numerous different reasons or explanations as to why she is that way...
but the only advice i can give you is to discuss the problems you are having with your wife...
and take it from there.
best wishes.
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