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female
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41-50,
*alamity Jay
writes:There's this guy I really like and we have got together twice now - but both times we were a litte drunk. There has been no sex involved as I've explained I think a lot of him, and want to wait and see how it progresses. We talk very openly about each other when we are under the influence. He tells me how much he likes me and that he thinks we'd be good together and I've told him I feel the same....but then through the week, I get nothing from him?? My friends seem to think he's very shy, and admittedly, when it comes to someone I really like, I'm rather shy too - but he is to the extreme. He is like two different people, and I just don't know whether I'm wasting my time or not?? Please help, I'm so confused x
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reader, Calamity Jay +, writes (24 July 2008):
Calamity Jay is verified as being by the original poster of the question2 completely different responses there haha, but I apprectaite both, thank you for taking the time to answer.
I think I need time to think about things, and have decided if nothing happens by the weekend ie) both of us going out on a SOBER date, then I am just going to leave it where it is, and move on :) x
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (24 July 2008):
 Maybe he feels more comfortable opening up when he's drunk (liquor has a reputation for lowering peoples inhibitions, I hear...). Maybe once he sobers up he's a bit embarrassed and insecure about what happens when he's drunk so he avoids you.
Anyway, this is all just speculation. You can only control your actions, and if you want more from him you're going to have to go and get it yourself. Ask him on a date! He likes you, you like him, so get to know him on a (sober) date. See how it goes.
Good luck.
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