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I feel like I'm a complete turn-off for him. How can I just let it go?

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Question - (24 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and i have been talkin about oral sex, im willing to go down on him but him going down on me is not a good idea. Its not that i dont want to but its just that im not confterble with my own body its not that i feel large or too thin but im just not oky.

Im a size 5-6 in jeens and i get many compliments on my breast like theyre nice and huge, i dont even know why im this worried about my body.

My boyfriend tells me that he wont let me go down on him if i dont let him go down on me too. I feel like a complete turn off. I wish to have confidence but i dont know whats wrong, how can i just let it go if i really want to get some from him, and give him pleasure, and blow his mind. I need help. any advice is good enough. tanxx in advanced

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008):

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Tanx you guys your really helpfull! i appritiate it im going to try and take my time to get used to him seing me naked! i know my boyfriend loves me alot and we actually had sex for the first time six weeks ago, but i was still to shy and wasnt really confertable. thank you thank you!=]

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (24 July 2008):

StudentOfLife agony auntMaybe it's to soon to do something like that.

I was with my girl for about 9 months before we saw each other naked for the first time. Took us a little while but when it happened we were totally comfortable with it. I always was actually ...

A thing she did to get herself comfortable faster to me was sending me naked pictures of her. She did that to "prepare" me for what's to come. (Like you, that girl was hot but she wasn't comfortable enough with her body)

I'll always remember the first time I went sleeping at her house, she told me if you come to sleep at my house, I'll show you my tits.

I wasn't with her for her body but because I was in love. She knew that, but it was a way, for her, to force herself naked to me.

I hope my story helped.

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