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writes:hello i have been with my boyfreind for two and a half weeks and i think we get on great but recently he seems to becomming distant i dont think that im showing him enough love so i dont think he loves me as such i think he just sees me as another one of his female friends. i want to do something to show him we can get along great and to help him learn to love me. we arn't hanging out for a while now as he says hes looking for a job even tho he is only 15(16 soon) so he doesn't know when we can next meet up.any adice please im stuck with this relationship i dont no what to dothanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (25 July 2008):
 Have you tried talking to him about it?
There may be a deeper problem with him. He may have had some depression or he's getting stressed at finding a job and wants more time to do this. There may be many things that may make him feel more distanced with him
But you have to talk to him about it. I assume that by being with him for more than 2 years that your communication with him is well established. Tell him how he's making you feel and ask him that you sense something that's bothering him. Also tell him that if you can, that you wish to help. Try to not sound accusatory at all and be as comprehensible as possible. While in the discussion, assure him that you love him and that you will be with him no matter what.
Talk to him, and good luck.
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reader, girlygirl2thextreme3 +, writes (24 July 2008):
 Maybe if you try spending more time with your boyfriend things will get better. Don't forget, guys need their space sometimes. Also, you say he's looking for a job...there's a possible chance he could be a little stressed out or just tired and exhausted.
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