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writes:Guys suppose you see this nice college girl you liked, but you heard she was force by a guy she was dating to performed oral sex once,but she ended the dating after that with him. Would you still try to date her or You may fear that the same guy who force her might see you and her and tell his friends lie that she did oral sex to him to feel important to his friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): Yes, I'd date her. I like experienced girls. Sounds like she fits the bill.
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reader, Nessie Jay  +, writes (25 July 2008):
Quite simply it sounds like it was not her fault at all, why should she be punnished with it? Bless her for not giving in, and let her know you think she is a beautiful person. As for him - if it was over three years ago, and he treated her like that, chances are he can't even remeber which girl it was. If he does, dont give him the satisfaction of knowing she is 'unwanted' Bless her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): According to your last question on the same subject when you lived in Jamaica, this event happened over 3 years ago. There's every chance she's voluntarily dished out a good few blowjobs since then. Are you going to let that bother you as well?
In any case, she's going to have to want to date you too before you can be seen together, so I'd get that hurdle out of the way before you worry about trivia like this. You've wasted six weeks since you last asked the question, and if she's that nice someone else with fewer issues about it is going to get in there - if they haven't already done so - and grab her before you get the chance!
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (25 July 2008):
 Ask her out, but don't go too fast with touches and everything because she may be hurt of her past experinces with men. Just be gently and talk to her about everything. Girls love to do that.
Maybe that guy who forced her will really make jokes about that. If he will do that, just tell him (in front of his friends would be better) that you feel sorry for him because he has to force girls to do oral sex, cause no one don't want to lick such a small and stinky dick as he has.
This guy must be really one big asshole, by the way.
And please, don't have prejudices about relationship or dating with her anymore. This is not the right reason to be with her. Good luck.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 July 2008):
 This sounds so much like this question,
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/guys-would-you-date-her-and-kiss-her.html
At this point, I'd probably let her be. She needs time to recover and doesn't need the stress of a relationship with a guy who is more concerned about his image than her well-being.
She may not want to have a relationship with anyone right now anyway.
Take care.
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reader, rproctor +, writes (24 July 2008):
Who gives 2 shits about some douche bag that uses women like holes in a wall. Fuck that guy, and if you cant bare to be with a woman who was used by another man because you fear that that man & his loser friends will laugh at you then your a prick!
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