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writes:Hey, this is a long story so I'll try to keep it short. I just graduated high school at the end of May 08.-I was friends with my boyfriend for a year before we started dating. We have been dating for 2 and a half years now.-my high school german teacher and i had a strange relationship. it wasn't professional on his part at all, but of course i have had a crush on him for the past 3 years. he is married with no children, but had been engaged 3 or 4 times before that.-one of my best friends and i have only known each other for a little over a year but we both like each other beyond friendship. she's never liked a girl before, but we want to sort of experiment. ironically she's been dating my boyfriend's best friend for about 6 months.i just don't know what to do with all three of these people clouding up my love life. even though i'm not in school anymore, my teacher wants to hang out downtown after i get moved into my dorm. one time last summer he invited me over "on sunday at noon". i asked where his wife was and he said that she was setting up her new classroom and would be gone for the afternoon. the thing is that i dont know if he's actually interested in me or if he's just messing with me or what... then my "girl friend" is moving in 3 weeks and I'm just not sure what to do as far as experimenting because she said that i have to make the first move.. but i trust her and i want her to be the one i experiment with. I love my boyfriend but i can't tell him any of this because it will hurt him.. my ties to him are too deep to ruin by saying that i want to try different things. i'm so confused and upset i dont know what to do. any advice.. just let me know. i would really appreciate it. thank you.
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reader, Amy2007x  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 I'll help you out with the whole bf and teacher suituation it sounds like mine all over!Just mail me here. You can find a link by clicking on my picture.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): Do you truly care about your boyfriend? If you do, you shouldn't even be asking this. You would know that the teacher and girl friend are off limits. It's natural and normal to be curious, but it's getting serious when you want to hide things from your boyfriend, especially if you carry out these actions. If your boyfriend is good to you, and truly one of the hard-to-find guys, you shouldnt do anything to jeopardize the relationship. If he's good to you, don't treat him like crap by cheating on him or "experiementing." I dont know how you feel about cheating, but "experimenting" IS cheating.
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