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He was my 'first', but I found out he's seeing someone else. What now?

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Question - (24 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2008)
A female Mexico age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I use to see to see this guy sometimes and you know he was the first guy that kissed me and all of that you know so I was really having feelings for him but we didn't use to see each other very often so one time we met after a long time we hadn't seen each other we were making out and it ended up being my first time and now i found out he's seeing someone else and i feel just awful so How do I get over him? and How do I act when I have to see him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008):

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Well i just wanted to thank u for answerin my question and tell you that it really helped me and i apreciate your answers they were very encouragin for me. thanx a lot

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008):

aw man. that sucks. but, you know, te same type of thing happened to me, and is still happening to me. you just cant let it affect you. this guy i was with, who was my first everything was busy doing oral when i wasnt around with a whore, and i was aware and still kept going back. you cant let him do things lilke that to you. theyre very manipulative. dont think about him. try to talk to other guys. maybe youll find one who you really do love and care about who wont be 2 timing you. dont make the same mistake i did. because im paying for it now. just put yourself out there. or better yet, stay with your close friends, mine helped me get through, and yours, if their good enough friends, will help you too. you dont need a guy in your life. they just suck. in my case, thats what girls just seem to do for him. =/

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