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writes: i'm 16 and i have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now.. i know its not that long but we're crazy in love! we see eatchother partically everyday..but my friends tell me that they think i should give him some space..cause im like always with him and they say he probally really wants that but he too scared to amdmit i tryed to confromt him about it but he says no thats not what i want my friends say its cause he scared what my reaction would be like he scared he will loose me,but i can't belive it till he tells me but i wanna give him space..cause i don't wanna lose him.. we've been best friends for almost a year befor we had dated.. i could tell him anything then and i still can but im having trouble confronting him about the space thing i honeslty don't know how to give him space.. how do i give him space what do i do!.. im willing to do anything for this relationship.. i love him to death he been soo good to me and i know he really loves me too.sincerlyTroubledLover.
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reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (24 July 2008):
Simple, if he hasn't said that he wants space, keep things exactly how they are! You cant run your relationship on what your friends are saying he's probably thinking blah blah blah, cos how are they to know? Sounds to me like, because you spend all your time with him, your not getting that much time to see your friends, so they're saying whatever to you so you spend less time with him and more time with them, maybe you should see your friends a little more often, but dont say to your man that your giving him space, cos that'll confuse him considering he likes things how they are, but instead just say that your gonna spend a bit more time with your mates? Hope that helps xx
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reader, rose the relationship solver +, writes (24 July 2008):
hello, talk 2 him and ask him. then explain to him if he does want space then you will give it to him. tell him you understand and that u dont want 2 lose him. good luck
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