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A guy is coming between me and my best mate

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Question - (24 July 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *reeworld writes:

i adore my best friend, we have so much in common and can often finish each others sentences, think the same things at the same moment and buy the same clothes without realizing!

the problem? her latest bf. they havn't been going out too long, but its started to affect our friendship. he constantly calls her when i'm with her (once 6 times in 3 hours). calls in the early hours of the morning when were both in bed. shes even been telling me he gets grumpy with her and jealous when she talks to his friends!

on top of this, she has recently moved back to her hometown. i thought this would be great as i could spent more time with her! he lives about 70 miles away from her but all her time is occupied with him! i live a 5 minute walk down the road! she hardly spending anytime with me now and he is always sleeping at her house or shes sleeping at his! but this isn't just for one nights, its several nights in a row! she even spends the whole day at his work where he works as a tattooist! i met him and he hardly spoke to me and wouldn't leave me or her alone together. he was being quite moody and has even got to the point now that if his friends invite him out, he wont go without her. she makes it clear she wants to spend time with me, but i dont think he actually cares.

i know this cant be me, because ive got on well with all her other bfs and she even says herself that he doesn't give her breathing space. i'm worried he'll become too possessive and get angry.

its hard because i feel like i'm losing my best mate, and i'm becoming resentful towards her. she always told me friends comes first, but it isn't the case anymore. she knows exactly how i feel.

-x-

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