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Is my friend helping or interfering?

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Question - (24 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *oftballplaya writes:

Hey everyone

I'm in a very puzzling situation...

Okay well I recently started talking to a boy from a different school but we get along good and we know what eachother look like and things have been going real great between us. Its only been like 2 weeks so its just starting. Well the problem is my friend came over and she took his number out of my phone when I wasnt paying attention and was texting him and told him he was hot. Well he asked for a picture of her which I dont really see a problem with cuz hes not my bf so he can do what he wants. Well after she said no he said okay whatever and then he called me and we talked for about a half an hour. Now this is the second time she has done this with a guy that I'm either dating or talking with! I dont know how to shake this because thats not right of her especially when she got a bf. I dont know why she would interfere with something thats my business. I only help her and try to be a good friend and she goes and does this. At first she claimed she was only trying to help me by texting him and saying she was with me so he would call cuz it was getting late and he didnt call so she tried to help. I just dont know why she had to tell him how hot he was....

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A male reader, Ometeotl United States +, writes (24 July 2008):

Ometeotl agony auntSounds like her love life is boring. Let her know it makes you feel uncomfortable when she wiggles herself in your love life. Tell her when you want to say something you will but set a guide line with her in a friendly way. If she doesn't understand let her know that it could cause problems and you don't want problems that interfere with your friendship with her.

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