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30-35,
*onelyjess
writes:My boyfriend wont have sex with me or even make out with me anymore! What do i do?!?! He says he's afraid of getting me pregnant, but im on birth control, we use condoms, and he even pulls out. He stresses way too much over it. How can i get him to wanna do it again? Just because he doesnt want to have sex that means he doesnt want to make out because it will get him horny. I know that he enjoys sex with me, so i know im not the problem. Somebody help please
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reader, lonelyjess +, writes (25 July 2008):
lonelyjess is verified as being by the original poster of the question I know that he fears getting me pregnant, and we used to be SO careless about sex, but now that we are careful he worries more. The only thing he will let me do is give him oral, but he wont even let me do that anymore because he thinks it might lead to something else (im guessing thats why?). Not trying to be cocky, but I know im attractive, and i know he enjoys sex with me, i just wish he wasnt like this.
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reader, shelleyanne +, writes (25 July 2008):
 Maybe you could still give him oral sex and vice versa. Talk to him. Tell him that even though he doesn't want to have sex you'd love to do other things to please him, and that you hope he'd like to do the same for you.
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reader, lonelyjess +, writes (24 July 2008):
lonelyjess is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell we would have to wait till im 18 to get married and thats in may...so im i just have my fingers crossed that he might have sex with me or even make-out with me. I feel so unattractive when i put myself out there for him and he turns me down, my confidence is so low now. I hate it, it can always please him but i get nothing in return.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): He's probably afraid of getting a paternity suit against him. Might I suggest you marry him before having any further sexual relationship with him? He'll feel rather more secure then, I fancy.
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