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Sex from behind/on top... how do I make it enjoyable for him?

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Question - (28 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2007)
A female Barbados age 41-50, anonymous writes:

What do guys like you to do (how to move) when you are having sex from behind (doggy style)?? Also, how do you have sex on top when the penis is quite small? I want to make sure it is enjoyable to him.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (28 November 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntAs for the doggy style - You don't really have to do much. Maybe meet his thrusts by pushing your hips back a bit, but really, doggy style... you don't need to do much. You could reach between your legs and (gently) play with his "boys". Guys love that!

I just looked up a website that gave me four positions great for small penises. I'll just copy and paste them here:

1- The doggie

I think we can all agree that this is the mother of all positions. Not only do you get full penetration, you also get the scenic route. For an even tighter feeling, open your legs and have her close hers, and get her to arch her back and relax her head and shoulders on a pillow.

2- The snake

Have your girl lie face-down on her stomach, legs straight out and closed. Place your genitals just under her butt and spread your legs on either side of her body, knees bent (keep your torso upright). Be careful not to let your weight drop on her, and make your way inside. If you like, prop her butt up by putting a pillow under her hips.

Note: She may initially have to open her legs in order for you to get your penis inside.

3- The rabbit ears

As your woman lies on her back, bring her knees to her ears, have her hold her legs there, and penetrate. The fact that her vagina is in plain view and easily penetrable allows for great in-and-out movement. I recommend that you put your hands (or a pillow) under her butt and hold her up as you watch yourself going in and out.

4- The V-formation

As she lies on her back, make your way inside her. Then, lift her legs in the air, hold her ankles, and spread her legs apart, forming a V. After a while, rest her legs on your shoulders and manipulate her clitoris while you continue penetrating her. Or, you could hold on to her hips and slowly pump in and out.

(http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_200/209_love_tip.html)

Make sure that you're nice and stimulated before you start. That always helps.

Good luck, sweetness!

xxIndia

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A male reader, SamuraiRick United States +, writes (28 November 2007):

SamuraiRick agony auntWow...loaded question here. I don't quite understand your question about doggy style. I'm no clinical expert, but what we do is grab your butt, get in behind and start banging...its all in the hips...what more do you want to know? Sometime a little slap-butt can be enjoyable. Watch Animal Planet after midnight, its pretty much the same way.

I'm not exactly the guy to ask about small penis issues, but I would say that he being on top would give him better penetration, your legs over his shoulders.

But my question is how small can he be if you can't get penetration from on top? If you control the angle you should be able to get it in somehow? It’s probably more a question of how hard his erection is not his size. Make sure he's nice and hard before you get on top (I don't have to tell you how to do that).

It’s great that you’re trying to work with him and love him, not rejecting him over the size of his penis. Good luck.

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