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writes:I'm 22 and my fiance is 33 we have been tryng for children for 3 years and had no luck. my fiance went and got tested and went to a specialist and has now been told he is unable to have children naturally, he can have an opperation to eject sperm from his balls, we spoke about this option and he decided he doesn't want to go through with it which is fine by me but now he gets all edgy when I try to talk to him about it. I have no idea where our lives are going and even whether there going in the same direction. How do I talk to him about this with out making him feel like I'm pushing him to get the operation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): If you're really fine with his decision not to have the operation then why do you want to talk about it?
Also instead of an operation or continuing to trying to conceive, why not adopt? If you are ready to provide a loving home for a child maybe take in a child that already exists and needs a good home.
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