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writes:I'm 14 years old, and im madly in love with a boy thats 17 and will be 18 in January and his paretns let him do what ever he wants.. Mine won't even let me go to his house. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Well, I can obviously see the problem. The guy is 18, therefore, he can do what he likes. He's an adult. But you are only 14, and still under the supervision of your parents, they obviously don't like the age difference. You mite just have to sit the boy and your parents down and talk about the matter.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (29 November 2007):
 Hey there,
His parents will probably let him do anything because he's almost of legal age! However, you are still pretty young and your parents are still in charge.
You should invite this boy over to your house and let your parents get to know him. be mature about this and allow your parents to get comfortable around him. The more comfortable they get and the more they trust him, the more they'll trust you going over to his house.
To get bonus points: invite him and his family over for dinner. That way your families can get to know each other!
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): Forget about him. He's about to turn 18 and become an adult, and you'll be too young to have a relationship with him. Your parents will never be comfortable with you seeing him because of the age difference, so your relationship wouldn't be able to go anywhere anyway.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (28 November 2007):
 I feel for you. This one guy liked me when I was younger, but I was older than him, like by two grades, and my grandpa wouldn't let me go to his house. These are your options as I see them:
1) Sneak out.
2) Lie and say that you are going over to a friend's house and have your friend cover for you.
3) Go to his house with a buddy.
4) Just talk on the phone and at school and online.
5) Let go of him. Find someone else to love.
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reader, clh91  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 his parents are letting him do whatever he wants coz he's older.
and your parents arn't letting you round his coz they want to protect you.
most boys at that age want sex and that might be whats concerning your parents.
they need to know they can trust you and this boy to be sensible and not do anything stupid.
i'd say meet up as much as you can and go round urs or for a walk.
its not the end just coz u cant go round his house.
do something else.
hope i helped :)
feel free to mail message me about anything if you wanna chat
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