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writes:hello. i have been going out with my gf whos 17 and im 17 for 23 months today,and i love her and i know some people say that im too young to know what love is.But i know that i love her lots.and a few months ago i split up with her bacause the stress of college and home was getting too much so i ended it.and i regretted it alot,but during the time we were apart she got with 2 other people like one night stands.she says she got over me.and we got back together and things havent been the same.shes been lying about how she feels.and now she says shes likes some else.but only cause theyve been spending alot of time together since iv had a lot of things to do.and i don't want to lose her as i wouldn't be able to cope..so i was wondering if anyone coudl help methanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): Hey im 15 maybe a little to young but i think if she likes someone else move away from it all and start fresh and get on with what you liked doing before meeting her and have a night out with the lads!
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reader, SamuraiRick  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 Women do not lie about how they feel, they just hide the truth. Often time we men have to read their actions instead of their words. Your girl's actions, seeing other guys, should tell you everything you need to know. She has moved on from you. If you want to win her back you have to accept her for what she did, rip that image of her having sex with other guys out of your head right now. Dwelling on it will only hurt. You broke up with her, and that gave her permission to do that. But now you seem to want her more than ever....you miss her, and that’s understandable. But she’s also telling you she’s seeing another guy and being straight with you. What part of that don’t you get?
Best I can say is try to start from scratch... treat her and date her like you just met her. Start making new memories with her instead of dwelling on the past. You may just win her back but if you don't, learn to accept it, take something from this and find another worthy girl.
Its gonna hurt. Just hang in there.
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reader, bad_desires +, writes (28 November 2007):
 why dont you try telling her how you feel about all this and about her cuz one thing girls have is a sensitive heart and a heart for others she'll listen. Girls love to be told the truth and loves it even more when a guy puts his gaurd down and jus speak from the heart so i think you should try that thats what my boyfriend did Thank God he did it to because i thought he was the one who was lying about his feeling so we were both really confused but when he did that pored his heart on the table it meant a lot to me. So maybe your both really confused? if you wanna talk more jus send me a private message....hope this helps
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (28 November 2007):
 I know you don't want to lose her, but sometimes if someone's lying to you, and you know for certain that they are lying to you, it may be for the best to just let them go. My question to you is, how do you know she is lying about how she feels? And which of her feelings is she specifically lying about? Her love for you?
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