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What do I do about this pain in the ass?

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Question - (28 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2007)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

OK, so this is annoying me and I'm looking for some advice.

I like this girl, who I think likes me back, and I got with her one night, well ever since my friend has been bothering me about it.

He's constantly asking for details about what she was like and whatnot, and he's always trying to flirt with her... Well anyways I told him this Friday I was going to ask her out on a date, so he was all supportive and whatnot saying I should ask her out, and then just a couple hours later he left her a Myspace msg asking if she was available to hang out with him Friday.

What can I do about this?

I just started hanging out with this new friend (if you want to call him that) a couple weeks ago, and he's being a major chode.

I know she likes him as a friend, but I think that's about it, the guy is a complete pest lately, and I never should have told him I hooked up with her, I really think he's going to (if he hasn't already) start asking her about the details of what happened.

And just now he asked me "so are we hanging out with Jessice this Friday?" I mean wtf is his deal!? He's keeps joking about how he wants to have sex with her, but I don't think it's a joke.

And seconds after saying he wanted to have sex with her he said "But I don't actually care about that hoe..."

Any advice here? I feel like I'm going to lose it on him pretty soon.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007):

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Well this sucks...

It looks like she's decided to go drinking with him tomorrow, and she told me she had to go clothes shopping.

It's going to be tempting to kick his ass.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007):

This guy is not your friend! Loose him and keep your mouth shut about this girl. If you do like her she won't be impressed if she is the topic of conversation about her sexual activities. Be a decent bloke about that please.

This guy sounds like trouble to me and I belevie you may find he will bugger up all of your potential relationshiips so think about distancing yourself from him before you punch his lights out!

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