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writes:I recently spoke to one of my guy friends about how he gets girls/woman to like him ( because he always seems to have woman on the go)He said that he gives them attention and then cuts it off and this makes them want more?What do you think? Does this work?Thankyou x Reply to this Question
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 It may work but it is not a mature way to have a relationship. If you play games to get someone then in my book you have already been dishonest with them and the foundation to any relationship is trust and honesty.
I do not appreciate men who play the game and once I figure out what they are doing, I move on. I've had these men then call me and try to be nice and want to go out but by then I've lost interest and it's over before it gets started.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 The anonymous poster is right. Women are all different. I think this would work with some women only. Other will detect the game and hate it.
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reader, hello1 +, writes (28 November 2007):
 Depends, It would put me off the person if they run hot or cold, It just be like I can't be bothered! or player alert!
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (28 November 2007):
 I don't play those kinds of games, but I can see how it works. Its called teasing. Flirting is another word for it. I know how to flirt too, but I don't play the give and take game...that's like a form of cruelty! Why you want to cruel to someone you like?
I am officially announcing I hate "The Game!!"....but sometimes the game is the only way to get someone's attention.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): Hi. You asked this question before on 18 November. If you really think there is a single "magic" method to get a girlfriend, then it is probable that you think of all females as being exactly the same. A common mistake made by many teenage boys. Change your thinking and you will be on the way to getting a girlfriend. That's better advice than treating girls like breaking a horse in.
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reader, BadAsh6705 +, writes (28 November 2007):
 Honestly...yes, it does work, but I believe it is better to not play games and be honest if you really like someone. If you do want to play hard to get, don't ignore them or be mean at all, just be playful about it. That works just as well.
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