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writes:I have been dating this girl, and we have been having sex nonstop almost every night since our second date. It’s been three months now, and it’s like every night for an hour or two. I’m not as young as I use to be, and although I love it, the grind is wearing me out. How do I tell her we need to slow down and not have to have it every night? We don’t even go out on real dates, its just hooking up at each others place. We haven’t even declared we love each other…we just have sex like rabbits. Somebody help me stop this crazy train! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): Dear Mr.Worn-out
Understandable. May be you should meet her at a very romantic coffee shop or something. Take her some place that really catches her attentions. Go out on dates and lots of physical activities will reduce her desire for sex a little bit.
I hope she will calm down while you continue enjoying the rocking...
peace.
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reader, Darren R  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 lol ok well what i sujest is sit her down and just say it. i think we should slow down because basicley i want to get to no you more as the person you are now, rarver than when im on top of you. You could maybe say i love haveing sex with you but please its been 3months and all we do is have sex, let's start going out more and enjoying ourselfs without being in bed. somthing like that.
hope that helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): Lol your post made me laugh! Am i right to assume that this woman is younger than you? If she is, then she's likely to be up for sexual intercourse more than you due to a higher sex drive. Just explain to her, that you're getting a bit bored of routine and suggest that it would be nice if you could just go on regular dates with each other as an alternative. Also drop the hint that all the sex is wearing you out, she'll understand! All my love xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): Hunny,
I would love to advise you but im as bad as she is LOL...Emmm! Maybe she is thinking the same or maybe not, Try taking her out in public for a meal and drinks she may grab you into the loo though. Just tell her hunny your knackered the flu you have the flu, Its so hard as I no you dont want to hurt her feelings and your probably loosing feeling in your lower parts..Rockelle has a good answer hunny GOODLUCK WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): I have a good idea, just say that your getting a bit sore!.
Then maybe you could go out and have somthing to eat instead of staying in. Or you could just tell her that you love having sex all the time but you just want to get to know her more, so maybe have sex every other day.
Good luck in everything you do.
x
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reader, rockelle +, writes (28 November 2007):
 LOL. I think the solution is simple just tell her in a very nice way that you enjoy her and would like to spend more time getting to know her (with her clothes on) I am sure that she will understand just be honest and tell her as much as you enjoy the sex you would like to get a chance to develope a deeper connection.
Good Luck!
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (28 November 2007):
 Hey - this made me laugh. How are you doing it? It doesn't have to be like a marathon, you can have sex sometimes without getting into a sweat or burning calories. VAry it. Buy a book of positions if it's really wearing you out. I expect you're sleeping well though!!!
Richard
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