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Missed my chance with my crush....should I try and be her friend??

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Question - (28 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I think I may have missed my chance with a girl I have a bit of a crush on. She was on the uni dating site, and I'd seen her around a couple of times. Have thought about contacting her but something inside of me was always holding me back. I've never actually spoken to her, and perhaps I was just being a bit too shy.

Now according to facebook shes in a relationship, and its clear i've missed any chance.

Would it be a good idea to get in contact but just to be a mate or something? I've no intention of trying to interfer with anything else shes got.

Thanks!

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A female reader, carergal United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2007):

carergal agony auntHi,

You can always be her friend as long as that is what she wants you cant rush things as it will push her away you need to be honest. But you never know if you show her how you have changed and how you love her by body language she may want to give you another chance.

Good luck.

((hugs)) X

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A male reader, TomWilkinson United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2007):

TomWilkinson agony auntOf course you should try and be her friend, there's no harm whatsoever in this, as long as you're telling the truth about no further intentions!

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