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writes:I am an unhappily married man who has fallen in love with this recently divorced woman who has two childern.I would like to start a relationship with her, but don't know how to go about starting one with her. I have been alone with her and would like to say or do something to show that I am interested but I get nervous, and don't say or do anything. I really like this woman and want to start a relationship with her but don't know how.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): Firstly, I agree with BadAsh, you need to be free to start anything with anyone.
That means you have to end your current relationship before you start another. If your considering an affair with this women and keeping your unhappy marriage then personally, I hope your turned down flat!
Get a divorce and let your wife realise that she needs to start a new life with someone who is prepared to work as a team. This may all sound harsh but you should be asking how to end your marriage because its not what you want anymore, and not how do I approach another women while I am still married.
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reader, BadAsh6705 +, writes (28 November 2007):
 I think you need to worry about your current wife and that situation first!! If you are unhappy, you need to let her know that you want to divorce. After you split up and aren't living together anymore and are sure you won't be back with her, then you can start something else, but right now that is inappropriate and I think it would show a serious lack of respect for your wife and then the new woman might lose some trust in you for doing that. Also, if she is willing to mess around with someone who is married, that says something about her character as well!!
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