A
female
age
36-40,
*weetheart1nonly
writes:I'm in love with a 35 year old man and I'm 19, I look and act more matured than my age and he looks much younger and acts younger than his age. I don't know why I feel this way about him, we've had our ups and downs yet we still love each other and also there is this boy in my school, everything you could ask for too in a guy, he's 21, going into medical school, very intelligent and he's been waiting for me for 2 years for us to go out and he's been helping genuinely with no strings attached. The problem here is that the age gap for the 35 year old is much but I still love him and this guy in my school I like him but not as much as the 35 year old. I'm scared that I might regret it or is something wrong with me? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, sweetheart1nonly +, writes (3 December 2007):
sweetheart1nonly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your help, the problem now is who I choose between this two guys, I am so confused. I have strong feelings for the 35 year old guy which I dont know why and the 21 going to 22 year old guy, is doing everything for me genuinely not trying to please and so on meaning he really likes me and he's showing himself, what do I do please? How I wish I could just have them both
A
female
reader, sexi  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Hi
You cannot plan who you are going to fall in love with it just happens. I love my bf and i would do anything for him. Dont be afraid of your parents. If you really like this guy then you should take a stand for your relationship. Tell your parents the truth and let them know how you feel. When i first started going out with my bf my parents never wanted to hear about us b/c they never spoke to his parents( really long story as to why) but i fought for my relationship and they eventually decided to give us a chance and allow him to come and see me. We started our relationship in September 2006 and they only agreed for him to come home in March 2007(6 months) b/c i loved him so much i was determined to fight for us. Now that he comes to my home to see me they see how nice he is and how much he loves me (We have already been away for a weekend together and we are going for a hoilday in December with him and my family) Just speak your heart out. Which would your parents prefer for him to come home and see you or for you to stand at street corners to see this guy. Are your parents strict? What is the worse they can do to you?
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk seeing that i have been where you are now.
...............................
A
female
reader, sweetheart1nonly +, writes (2 December 2007):
sweetheart1nonly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am not ashamed of him but where do I start from because of the age, I mean people would think otherwise, though he looks much younger except I tell them the age. I'm only scared on how to tell my family about this. It's just that I dont know why I feel this way for him when guys my age, good job, intelligent and everything a girl could ask for are still in line waiting for me.
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007): Why are you afraid to pursue the relationship with the older man? Are you ashamed of him? Would you take him home for holidays?
...............................
A
female
reader, sweetheart1nonly +, writes (29 November 2007):
sweetheart1nonly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPlease guys I need answers and your help
...............................
A
female
reader, sweetheart1nonly +, writes (29 November 2007):
sweetheart1nonly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo he hasn't been married before and no kids.
...............................
A
female
reader, sexi +, writes (29 November 2007):
Hi
Is this 35 year old married or does he have any kids?
Regards
...............................
|
