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anonymous
writes:I was goin out with my boyfriend for 5 years, I broke up wih him about 2months ago to go out with a guy who I have known for a gud few years who i have always been very good friends with and dated for a few months in school. my ex keeps ringing and txin me askin for another chance, i have given him enough chances but i always go back and giv him another chance...he never took me serious just took for granted i wud always be there.he always worked and when he wasnt workin he was wit his friends and expected me to tag along he said he'll do anythin to make it work....The difference is the other guy is really interested in me and my life but very obsessive over me and his money issues really annoy me, always goin on about the price of things and hes got no job his parents pays his rent and for his car and stuff which i cnat understand for a 22yr old... i dunno wot 2 do shud i give my ex a go or stick out with the guy who'll never pay for anythin for himself??i hate hurting either guys it kills me...HELP ME!!!!
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reader, Jez_rocks  +, writes (29 November 2007):
Go for the rich one!!! hell yeah!! no seriously think to your self who is the one that has been there for you, cared the most and the one that you would rather have as a boyfriend? also the one that you could not be without! and member girl go for the one that will treat you right! coz that is what we all need!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): Well for sure I would ditch the guy that you are dating who has no money and lives with his parents. You don't need to be with a guy who has so little drive and ambition. That would simply turn me off. Get rid of him.
As for the ex, well you could give it another go. Or you could just move on and be single and see if you meet someone more compatible with you. I mean I don't know why you feel like you have to choose between either of them. There are so many guys in the world. Not just two.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): fixing money issues is way easier than getting a guy to appreciate you, there were many things i used to do that annoyed people but i stopped doing them for other people
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): fixing money issues is way easier than getting a guy to appreciate you, there were many things i used to do that annoyed people but i stopped doing them for other people
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): Write down a list of all the good things on one side of the page and all the bad things on the other about them both.
Think of stuff like,which one are u most in common with which one cares about you and you no that they would do anything for you.
I personaly think that if you can't chose between them then you don't really like either of them as much as you think you do.
When the right person comes along you will no and it will feel like everyone else is just a regular person and this one guy is the special one u can't stop thinking about.
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reader, Charley Coles  +, writes (28 November 2007):
Been there ! look which one makes you happy. Which one cares for you and loves you,treats you like a princess and wants to be happy which one do you really love. You dont need advice that one is all youuu x
Good luck
also just break it gently to the other one that you dont choose.
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reader, problem.solved +, writes (28 November 2007):
well what you need to do is think of the pros and cons of each guy.
this new guy may deserve a chance to see what he can really be like. give him a few dates to see if he is worth ur time.
or just start from scratch with this old guy? start by going on a date?
hope my advice helped ? x
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