A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Sorry if this is long,Right, well im 14 and in March this year and i got with an amazing guy i had been after for ages and we went out for 1 month. The day before we broke up he passed his driving test i found out he had cheated on me.Before i got with him i had heard that he cheated alot on girls and didnt no how to treat them right but he made me feel special told me that i shouldn't be afraid to tell him anything that we were going to be together forever and that he didnt cheat on girls and that i should ignore what ive heard. When we broke up i took it hard. I saw him in April and started texting and ringing him again. He asked if i still loved him and he was playin me again then in May i met up with him again and he had a good time... but my mates said because what we had done he was using me and i shouldn't talk to him again :( so i didnt. then my new mate said she was seeing him and that she was just having abit of fun with him. He rang me out of the blue and he said i used to be nasty to him and i wasnt, he cheated on me it was the other way round HE cheated on ME!! He probably thinks because i had a go at him when i found out that was being nasty and ever since my mate has been rubbing it in my face. I do wish i had never met the lad i love but i have!! Do you think i should get back with him? Do you think hes a player? Do you think he will hurt me again!! I still love him but my heads telling me something is wrong but after nearly 6 months im not over him!!HELP PLEASE!
View related questions:
broke up, cheated on me, player, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, carergal +, writes (28 November 2007):
 ok well your 14 and have the rst of your life a head of you boy he is playing you so badly you may feel like your in love and that may be true but its just a school girl love you are very mature for your age and need to get over him as there are more out there and waiting for someone like you.
I wish you luck with everything and finding someone.
((HUGS)) XXX
A
male
reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (28 November 2007):
 you're not over him because you're a kid, trying to be an adult, which you aren't ready for. You're 14, I know it feels strong, it's happened to us all, but you DO NOT love him. And yeah he is a player, but you already know that
...............................
|
