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36-40,
*eekay
writes:I've been in a platonic relationship wit my girlfriend for about 5 months now. She adored me very much and always expressed it profusely but after the first 2months,we were kinda seperated by distance because i was doing my IT(student program)in a different town. Recently,she started complaining alot about my absence and suddenly she said she's losing love and she requestsed that i give her a break.I'm hurting because i'm stil very much in love with her and dont want to lose her. How can you explain this and what can i do to get our sizzling love back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): Hi Teekay,
Its hard for us agony aunts to tell you the reason your GF has decided to take a break from your relationship.
It could be a long list of reasons and it wouldn't be right for any or us Aunts to try to explain it on behalf of your GF.
But I do know that some people find a long distance relationship hard to deal with. At the end of the day Teekay if this woman claims that she loves you, but cant wait until you finish a course to be together, then maybe the relationship wasn't meant to be.
But having said that once you complete your course and go back home, maybe she will reconsider the relationship.
I would recommend that you go with your instincts and do what you feel is best for yourself.
Good luck in all you do.
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reader, carergal  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 It is best to give her her space and then after explain to her how you feel and ask how she feels and just try and patch it up tell her how much you care respect and love her. All relationships are give and take and you just have to work through it as best as you can.
((HUGS)) XXXX
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