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writes:i used to go out with girl about 6 years ago and were pretty close, then we spilt up and went our different ways i got married and had a child, then about 2 months ago my wife and me spilt up i was devasted at first.then about 4 weeks ago i bumped into the old girlfrind from all them years ago we talked and exchanged numbers, then we went out for a chat and then she told me she had a boyfriend and wanted us to be freinds. i was happy with that ,she just said if we had not drifted apart we still of might been together now.anyway we have been getting on well chatting and seeing each other for a drink.but then on saturday night she was out drinking with her friends and me with my friends we met up and were having a good laugh she was really flirting with me then all of a sudden she kissed me and i didnt stop her i kissed her back. then we kissed a few more times she kept coming back.i felt really guilty after it happened but i did enjoy it.she text me on sunday saying how much she enjoyed it but should of done it.then yesterday she rang me and said we cannot be friends anymore as the kssing has ruined our friendship and she feels guilty for doing it.i was devasted i still want to be her friend as were coming good freinds.i jsut not sure how to react do i ask her to still be my friend as we were getting on well or just put her out of my life?i cannot lie i am atteacted to her and i think a little she maybe still attrached to me.
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reader, mona-lisa-cries +, writes (8 May 2007):
 what you need to ask yourself is, is this girl, your ex, saying she doesnt want to be friends with you because she really doesnt want to see you anymore or because she wants you to fight for her....maybe this is fate, or maybe you posted this because you want someone to tell you its fate so you can go after her and tell her you love her, you obviously have feelings for this woman, if you love her you will do whats best for her.
i wish you luck in your desision, hope i helped :)
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reader, aunty jane +, writes (8 May 2007):
 Explain to her that you were both at fault as you were both drinking and that it wont happen again and that you really enjoy her friendship and would like for it to continue,but if things have gone too far , you dont mind holding back and waiting for her to decide how friendly your relationship should be
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