A
female
age
41-50,
*zedeh
writes: My future husband has a friend which is constantly trying to ruin our relationship out of jealousy as he spends all his money and days getting drunk. My fiancee knows im sensitive about him as we have only gotten into arguments when he has been with him last week he went out with him but promised me that it would only be to one pub texting me assuring me that he was too grown up for going out to town.I suspected he was lying and kept calling him and he lied to me again saying he was at home in the toilet when he really was out.I caught his bluff almost broke up our engagement but he apologized and promised never to see his so called friend again.I still love him but cant trust him.I'm constantly paranoid and when he is not with me I am always sceptical.What can I do?
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reader, AdamPayseno +, writes (9 May 2007):
Broken trust is a hard one to replace..
Tell him you need help.. Ring him when hes' not with you and let him know you want an answer to get the re-assurance.
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female
reader, honesty +, writes (8 May 2007):
you need to sort out this so called friend maybe try to get him a girl friend your future husband needs to think is it owrth still having that person as a friend if all he does is constantly trying to ruin your relationship
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