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anonymous
writes: Hi im 15 years old, and when me and my girlfriend are having sex i sometimes have orgasm too quickly, sometimes it doesn't even take a minute. I don't really mind this that much, and even my GF says it is ok, but it makes me feel that i am not able to satisfy her, can anyone help if there is a possible way how to solve this please???
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reader, Starboii4evahigh  +, writes (3 April 2010):
I'm 15 years old and this works 4 me... Jack of like a 60 min b4 having sex and when u have sex u won't fell like cumming that quick cuzz u just finish cumming., longest I lastted was 45-50 min at lmao I was tierd buhh it was good cuzz at least u Noe u pleases ur girl hope it helps...
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reader, cutlass18 +, writes (9 September 2009):
something that helps is to enjoy it and think about something else also try a condom it helps a lot.
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reader, waciehawks +, writes (2 June 2009):
Don;t have continuous sex. When you feel yourself approaching the edge, stop and go down on her or kiss her and let your excitement go down a little. If you pace yourself, You'll last a hell of alot longer.
And remember, you're still young and not sexually mature yet. Your threshold should get better! Good Luck!
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reader, mason361  +, writes (2 June 2009):
 Bud, I'm 16. and I don't have the same problem. Listen, Ive learned that if you have a mouthful or two of booze... It's gonna last ALOT longer. I actually get yelled at for drinking before sex. DON'T DRINK COFFEE! For me, I lasted about 1 min. If I dont, i'm usually around the 5-10 mark. Just play with her first then enter and do it
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): heres a hint
dont have sex while your 15
period
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008): is viagra good for longer sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): just jack off like an hour before having sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): just think of pleasing the girl than pleasing yourself, in this way you will forget of your orgasm and she will definitely have multiple orgasm before you even enter. giving a her a good torrid, using your tounge and fingers properly on her weakpoints will definitely make her lost her mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): i've found that taking the time to really turn her on, gets ur mind off how good it feels for you and ur making sure that she's pleased. if u naturally worry about this while actually having sex it will make you last longer as well. just remember, you want to please her before you can be pleased. using this i can go anywhere from 45 minutes to an hour and a half, but the really good thing is that after she's done, once u start focusing you can finish as fast as you want to
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): All i can say is if your confident in the sheets and before having sex you say to yourself 'im not going to orgasm' you simply won't..
or if you get carried away wen you get to the stage where you know in 5 seconds time ur going to cum simply pull out..wait 10 seconds and start again.. ORRR...when u ejeculate hold the tip of your penis so it cant escape..wait about 20 seconds or more.. it all depends really and when you feel that its gone let go and you will be able to carry on as normal..these methods work
i'm 16..self taught and i last from anything from 1 hour to 1 and a half hours.. maybe longer but sometimes im just really tired haha!;) well hope i've helped anyone with the dreaded 'p.e'
GOOD LUCK PEOPLE
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): The best advice I was given was confidence. If you're confident and believe you can last longer then you think, honestly... you'll last longer lol. Try not to think about having an orgasm. You'll be amazed by how long you last.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): 1 do not rush.2 have a bit of romance before sex3 touch her all over her body4 finger her gently not hard until you feel her juices5 keep hold of yourself try to be calm6 use your tongue for a good few minutes7 find the right spot on her body where when you touch her you see a great reaction concentrate on that spot8 then you can start having sex. even if this time it last a minute she will have enjoyed. if it is very quick keep thinking it's your first time having sex just keep ponding until your dick gets hard inside. this time you will last a very long time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2007): hey, me and my boyfriend have had this problem before..this usally occurs when you havent had sex in a while or you just get really horny really fast lol..but ways to make it longer...you can masterbate about 30 mins or so before you know your going to have sex..this way when you have an orgasm it takes longer..or you could just in a way slow down or even pull out for a few seconds if you feel like your going to finish.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thank you for ure replys, i was realy concerned about this issue...than u very much!:)
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reader, Merchant +, writes (8 May 2007):
Try exercing your pelvic floor muscles. When you go to the toilet, stop the flow of your urine for 10 seconds and then repeat 3 or 4 times. This will create extra control for you when you have sex. I often last for over an hour because I have highly honed pf muscles. Try it! It works.
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reader, Just a Girl... +, writes (8 May 2007):
 huni go for the finger rule! as soon as your over make sure the attentions all on how she is feeling and ask her exactly what she wants ok! then you havnt got to worry that she hasnt got what she needs
good luck huni
take care xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): My answer depends on how close you and your girlfriend are in your relationship. BUT, i once read that if you have sex to the point where you feel you're about to climax, stop and let her use her hands then continue normal sex and continue doing this a few times it'll improve your pelvic floor muscles which helps you last longer. Just a thought.
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reader, penta +, writes (8 May 2007):
 Foreplay is your friend, here. Delay actual sex until your gf is ready to climax. While you're concentrating on making her feel good, you're not getting the same feedback that thrusting gives you, and so you'll last longer. Then, when she's almost ready, you can enter. That way, you'll both have an orgasm very quickly. You'll find that you get a glowing review from her, too.
BTW, as you get older, you'll be able to last longer.
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