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36-40,
*ADDY00
writes:hi, im engaged and living with my partner of 1 year, the problem is i have fallen for someone else. he is old enough to be my dad but i just cant stop thinking about him, he like me to because he has told me. Should i risk throwing away what i have got for something that might not last?
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reader, MADDY00 +, writes (9 May 2007):
MADDY00 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am 18 and he is 37, i never realised how much i thought about him till the other night when i saw him at my local. i really dont know what to do x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): It is plainly obvious that if you loved him in the committed, truest way..no other man could have ever turned your head like this. You are definitely not ready for a committment, such as an engagement, hun. You have some 'oats to sow' and it's better you realize this now, than after you're married with two kids in tow. You still need to progress, develop and attain that mature frame of mind that will allow you to uderstand how really serious a committment, such as engagement, really is. You are not there yet. I think you need some time to yourself, so you can think about life and what you really, really want. Trust me..talk to your fiancee, put the marriage plans on hold. You aren't ready yet. Coming clean with him now will be the best thing you can do. You'll be doing both of you a huge favour to address this as soon as possible. Good luck dear and take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): how old are you and how old is the guy you've fallen for? just so we get a better picture of the situtation.
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