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writes:hey, my heart is really broken and i REALLY want to save this relationship with my ex. she asked for a break a while ago, because things have been rocky. so i agreed, but i kept showing up and wanting to talk things out because i was really worried about our relationship. so i got her to come over one day and talk things out. the first things she said is she couldnt do this anymore. i took it well for the first couple hours but broke down and ever since i regret not giving her her space. she is fed up with my insecurity and i need to know what should i do to fix this? should i give her more space but still let her know i love her and care? should i also be more of a man and focus on my life? so u think she will come back to me???
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reader, Just a Girl...  +, writes (8 May 2007):
 awww huni, this is such a similar situation to one i hav been in myself. she reli needs to be letf alone to think. ring her and tell her you love her but then delete her number. this way if she wants to contact you she can do so n you havent got the temptaion. Even if you can remember the number by the time youve typed it into the phone you may hav gotten yourself into the right frame of mind. She needs to be left alone to figure out how she feels. the more you ring the more she will pull away from you.
She may come back to you but then again maybe she wont. You have to be willin got be man enough to accept any eventualiy!
I hope things work out for you.
take care huni! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very much
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (8 May 2007):
 It might be important to know what your insecurities were?
You are probably best to focus on your self and your insecurities which might hinder any future relationships you may want to have.
You need to think carefully on how you ended up with this problem in the first place and see the route in which it has taken you. This will make things clearer in your head and help you see what you must do to better yourself.
Give her the time and space and respect that. She may not come back, but she will respect more for not chasing her and giving her, her time.
You never know the time apart might help your siutation, but dont focus on that, focus on YOU for the time being and get yourself sorted.
All the best. I know a situation like this is not easy, the best thing you can do stay with friends and over time things will look different. Its sounds cliched, but that is the truth.
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