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I'm 16, just lost my virginity and now my BF wants me to shave down there!

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Question - (8 May 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey am 16 and and i just lost it to my b/f who i have been with for about 2 years now and he said he would like me to shave all my hair on my pussy... would it make a diffrence if i did or not?

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A female reader, xoTrineyxo United States +, writes (10 May 2007):

xoTrineyxo agony auntIt all depends honey.

If you want to go ahead.

Dont let him pressure you into anything you dont want to do.

And i agree tell him to do it to!

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A female reader, miss fit United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2007):

tell him that know way are you going to let a stranger with a pot of searing hot wax near your privates unless he gets it done too and he pays for it. seems fair.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007):

My girlfriend shaves 4 me and I like it - but It isnt really important.So if u ok with it - fine.If not - he shud accept and be fine with u 2

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A male reader, rossiboy confessions United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2007):

rossiboy confessions agony aunthun do what you want to do, its your body and what you feel comfortable with dnt be pressured into shaving your vaginal area.

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A female reader, penta United States +, writes (8 May 2007):

penta agony auntDepends on what you mean by "make a difference."

If you mean make a difference to him, yeah it probably will. My husband prefers the "racing stripe." I hate shaving because of how it itches when it grows back. I do it for him sometimes, but not as often as he'd like. I tried bikini waxing once. Yeoch! Childbirth was easier! But it was smoother longer, and he loved it.

If you mean does it make a difference to you? It does feel sexy, but when it's growing back I don't feel like it's worth it. Personal preference.

On the other hand, my husband shaves his balls; he figured he couldn't ask me to shave if he didn't too. And I have to admit I like that a lot.

So maybe you should tell him that you will if he will. Fair's fair, right?

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A male reader, Merchant  United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2007):

Don't think you should do it just because he wants it. Do it because you want to. Really it makes no difference, just looks.

I am sure that you are beautiful with or without your hair. Let's hope you bf thinks so. And remember, only do things because you want to. Love in not about coercion, it is about kindness and friendship.

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A male reader, DKR United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2007):

DKR agony auntthe only difference would be your lack of hair. It certainly won't improve either parties performance and it's not a risk to your health. Maybe your pertner just preferes "that look". The choice is yours really though. If he leaves you if you dont then he's hardley worth the hassle.

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