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writes: Hey, I just wonder one thing, how can i make my GF to get orgasm? it's always like this that al her friends tell her how many times they had it while they had their last sex, and she when she tells me that, i always think that it's my fault that she cant get it...so please can u help me out and tell me if it is my fault and if it is, then how to solve this problem???please...(btw im 15)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007): Actually many women do not orgasm from penetrative sex alone. Im guessing that at you age you dont take your time with a passionate minimum hour long session of scene setting, lots of foreplay and eventually penetrative sex.Depends on the woman but mood can be the crucial ingredient, not being 'pumped' for 30 seconds. Blokes are generally more physical and less emotional - satisfied with banging any hole that fits until orgasm reached. Learn passion.Anyway its much better. Also dont believe the comments about her friends
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reader, luvmecozim_lily +, writes (9 May 2007):
Hiya,
I'm sure your girlfriend knows what she likes best and how to make herself orgasm. Just ask her to tell and show you.
Make sure she is comfortable and relaxed. Finger her, go down on her, but always make sure she is comfortable and relaxed.
All women are differnt and they all like different things. Your GF shouldn't be afraid of showing you what she likes and you shouldn't be afraid of asking her.
It just shows that you care about her and want to please her.
Most important, don't give up, keep practicing!!!
Lily xxx
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reader, sleepyhollow +, writes (9 May 2007):
You're 15. You shouldn't believe everything you hear.
And then there's the fact that you should really evaluate whether or not you should engage in sexual intercourse at your age. The dangers of STDs, pregnancy, and the emotional stresses that come with sex are tough enough on adults.
Whatever happened to school athletics and movies, and friendships? Have they gone out of style?
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