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He thought I was too young to date so he stopped contact. But I can't get over him-what can I do?

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Question - (8 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

OK, so there's this boy and I met him on my work experience. I'm 15, 16 this september and he had just turned 18. So we got talking + he got my number, nothing more happened while I was there, but after we texted each other a lot and eventually got to see each other. We didn't have sex or anything, just kissed, but then he started being a bit funny texting me and he texted me saying he thought I was too young and didn't want to get either of us into trouble. So I said OK and I would respect his feelings, but I told him I would find it hard. I haven't spoken to him since. I tried to ring him but just got voicemail and I e-mailed him but he hasn't replied yet. The trouble is that I think I'm in love with him and I can't just get over him, it's too hard. I really want a proper relationship.

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A male reader, Royofthe Rovers United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2007):

Royofthe Rovers agony auntHe is right in what he has done and I commend him for doing so. You may love him but he obviously thinks you are too young for him and not just in a physical way either. Remember what he was doing was/could of been illegal and the results from that could of been horrendous.

I would respect him for what he has done and use this experience as a positive. Go and find someone your own age or thereabouts. Your still young and you will find someone else before you know it.

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A male reader, DKR United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2007):

DKR agony aunti can relate to what it is you're saying, however, i must stress that you don't rush into things. Enjoy being young while you can, "relationships" are alot of hard work and it's a huge thing for any person to undertake. In regards to this guy, i would worry about it. With each day that passes your pain will lessen. Cut yourself off from him, he obviously dosnt deserve you. There someone else out there for you, 10 times better than him, but don't go looking for it.

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