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writes: Hi there,Me and a guy were friends. We are part of the same group of friends. We all went out as a group most wkds. Well we ended up sleeping together, a few times. It all seemed fine neither of us wanted a relationship due to coming out of long ones not that long ago. However I didn't want it to cause a problem between us or for it to cause any awkward feeling. I have never contacted him since we did sleep together but just spoken to him whenever I see him out. One wkd my friend and I went to a club and parked near his mates house cause I knew how to get there, my friend saw this guys car there and went round to see what they were up to. They said they may come out and meet us later. They did join us then we went back to my his mates house after. I ended up with him again. Then he got a bit funny and said it was weird how we turned up, tryin to say I went there on purpose. I had no idea he would be there as it's not exactly close to where we both live. He didn't have to come out with us either. The next week I arrange to go to a club and him and his friends decide to go too. He claims I am following him, even tho I arrnaged to go first with my friends. Now he is being so nasty and told me to stay away from him. I have done nothing wrong and am angry he feels he can talk to me like he has done. Why is he being like this? I never phone him or contact him it's like he is trying to provoke me for some reason. I met someone else that night and all he did was stare at me the whole night. After he had been so rude I just blanked him as I think it's the best thing to do.x
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reader, aunty jane  +, writes (8 May 2007):
 Maybe he thinks you see him as boyfriend material as you have slept with him.next time a situation arrises for you to sleep with him kindly decline.
Try finding another group of friends to hang out with for a while just untill things cool down just to prove you are not the stalker and if you happen to bump into him just smil say hello and carry on with what you are doing....
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (8 May 2007):
He sounds like a paranoid little freak. Dont bother with him at all. Just ignore him completely. He should not have been rude to you, but dont go to him to have ago at him. Im sure you will bump into him or he will come up to you at some point in the future, and when he does, tell him hes an idiot, you would not follow him he aint that good in bed, hes a paranoid freak and not to stare at you when your out and talking to people.Basically, just tell him to get lost.
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