A
female
age
26-29,
*iannebaby
writes:I've got a boyfriend but he we have kissed and snogged and stuff already but my boyfriend is a year older then me and he says he wants to try out more stuff then kissing... but im not sure .... What should I do to pleasure by the way im only 12 .. ???
View related questions:
kissing Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, YummyMummy +, writes (16 July 2007):
 If you aren't sure then don't do anything more. Just because you boyfriend wants to doesn't mean you have to! xxxxxxxxxxxx
A
female
reader, Cyg79  +, writes (15 July 2007):
 Regardless of age, you need to do what You are comfortable with. Don’t let anyone pressure you into an uncomfortable situation. He’s your boyfriend and should respect your wishes, if he can't do that. Then he has no business being your boyfriend.
Taking age into account, you have plenty of time to try out "more stuff" when your older. And just because he’s a year older does not make him any wiser then you. Believe in yourself and believe in what your head is telling you.
Remember to always be true to yourself and you'll never go wrong.
...............................
A
male
reader, Jamer70 +, writes (13 July 2007):
 your way to young to be doing anything sexual.
Stick to the kissing as you dont not want to get into the sexual stuff at your age as your body is not nearly ready enough and there are alot of dangers from doing sexual stuff.
Like flower girl said enjoy your childhood im 17 and i already miss it like hell, enjoy those years.
Tell him your not ready and you want to wait. By the way he is also to young to be thinking about it aswell
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007): hey i'm 12 too and i think if your boyfriend wants to try new things and he's only a year older... then there might be something going on wih him. Not to scare you or anything. Also is he really worth it? think about it I mean your only 12. Don't do something if you thinks its wrong and if you're not ready and he keeps pushing you try a different guy. :}
...............................
A
female
reader, Ask-Angel-face +, writes (12 July 2007):
 OK hun your 12 dont you think you should slow down dont let your bf presure you into doing ''other things'' at your age hun just ask him to slow down becouse you are so young and just stick to kissing till your about 14-15-16 and what he wants to do is all lad thinks about anyway so take care hun xx hope this helps please write to me and tell me how it goes
...............................
A
female
reader, flower girl +, writes (12 July 2007):
 Personally i think you should stick to just the kissing due to your age, Please enjoy being a child as it does not last long enough, you have plenty of time for other things later in life.
If you are not ready (which i hope you are not) then tell him this and if he is not happy and puts any pressure on you then he is not worth it babe.
Take care.xx.
...............................
A
female
reader, 88jane +, writes (12 July 2007):
 If you're not sure about taking your relationship further then don't do it! dont ever do anything you feel uncomfortable with, you will regret it. You need to think about the reasons why your not sure about taking things further---you are very young and legally you shouldnt have sex until you are 16. your boyfriend may be a year older but he is very young too--perhaps you are both too young to be thinking about having a physical relationship.My suggestion is to keep on with the kissing and things you feel comfortable with-if you decide to take things further then think about it very hard before hand because you will need to consider safety aspects as well e.g. contraceptiontake care and i hope my advice helps xxx
...............................
|
