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We love each other but she won't leave her boyfriend; how do I get over this?

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Question - (12 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Okay I fell in love with a girl who was already engaged we had great times she said she felt love for me.. Months went by with this secret love of ours the most amazing time in my life, then she tells me recently she cant leave him! and to think of the fairness towards him.. She has my number I told her to call me if and when she makes up her mind no call yet.. I was a fool in love i suppose but I tried to forget about her by being consumed with my work no matter where I go .. a song a place we have been together or just thinking I cant seem to forget about her in order to start the healing process.. Any ideas/help on this subject will be great.. Thanks

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (12 July 2007):

eddie agony auntWell you've learned a life lesson that will heal with time. We don't always get what we want. And this time you didn't deserve her either. Stay out of other people's relationships and you'll have better luck with your own.

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A male reader, T.Black Australia +, writes (12 July 2007):

T.Black agony auntHey mate, yeah i can feel your heartache, at the moment. But what i could say to that is that, Yes obviously you had very strong feelings for her and at some stage she had strong feelings for you. But what you have to remember is that for every single person on this earth there is someone !! so basically this might sound harsh and unforgiving but you should move on and go out there and find yourself the perfect woman, one that will suit your personality down to the ground. Good Luck with your search. Hope this small comment helps you out.

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