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What turns a guy on?

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Question - (12 July 2007) 11 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *exiestgirlalive18 writes:

Guys what turns you on? How can a girl make sex better for you?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008):

well every dude is diff :] but honestly? there's a few big answers that seem to be great. if you are okay with your body, you wont be afraid to do sumthing to them. its great if you have a good self-esteem cuz you can flirt probably MUCH better. but if you don't, thats okay too :] cuz if he is even worth it, he'll make it so that he constantly says that you're beautiful. not always "hot" or "sexy" even though that is good too!

the main goal is to make sure it feels good. depending on his personality, he might want you to be aggressive and be on him, or be more passionate and which means you kiss his neck or nibble on his ear or a clearrr makeout session thats HOT! =D

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008):

I get especially turned on during sex when a girl sticks her fingers in her butt, then make's me suck on them...

I also like it when she pushes on my butthole with her thumb each time I thrust in...It feels soooooo good!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

I think to turn a guy on you just have to be upfront with what u want. Guys love it when u just take charge in the bedroom. Dont always let him decide whats going to happen. Push him down on the bed instead of him pushing u down. And u get on top. TRUST me guys love this!!!

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (13 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntI like eyeswideopen's straightforward answers :-), but, as is often the case, I'm with Eddie.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007):

You just need to stop being shy and hit the guy up with this question. Say teacher...teach me, this naught school girl wants to be educated.

I haven't had that not work yet.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007):

O can only speak from personal experience. What turns me on, is having my neck kissed. I also like to have my cock gently caressed

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007):

I second that about being enthusiastic and *willing*. Willing is good. Like Eddie had said elsewhere "I want a woman to want me because she's horny, not because she feels obligated." Mmm, having a horny, willing, and enthusiastic partner who not only wants to do things with you in sex, but do things with and for you other than sex is a huge turn on. As simple as baking cake for me, or have her smile back, hmmm... 8]

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (12 July 2007):

eddie agony auntI can tell you that I like a woman who is enthusiastic. In other words, I enjoy a lady who is as interested in being there as I am. I find that as time goes by, it's harder to capture that feeling, due to the same old routine, but that's what I like. A man likes to feel as if the woman he's with desires him and she's interested. There is nothing worse than being with a woman who just lays there and waits for it to end. At least that's how a man who is in love thinks.

A single guy out to get laid on Saturday night probably doesn't care, there's no attachment. For a single guy, there is no such thing as bad sex. Any sex is good. Good sex is better. Sad but true ;)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007):

A woman with a good self-esteem is a major turn on.

And when a woman isn' ashamed of her body, sex is instantly way better. When you're having sex it's not like you can actually hide anything anyway, so instead put yourself out there to his face ;)

Like my girlfriend, the first time we had sex she put all the lights out and tried to hide under the sheets lol. With love and praise of her looks she's a wild love machine these days :D

Poor little thing, she's told me I'm the first man she's been with that has told her she's sexy.

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A male reader, NuVu United States +, writes (12 July 2007):

The best sex for me always comes from the connection of being in love. Casual sex doesn't even compare. So for a girl to make sex better for me, she's gonna have to get me to fall in love with her.

Otherwise just be open, relaxed, and have fun.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntI'm thinking mere opportunity.

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