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anonymous
writes:I have been in relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years and she is already married to a man. My girlfriend and her husband married due to family pressures when they were young and there have never been any kind of relationship between them. Me and my girlfriend went through a lot of problems initially and we were on a long distance relationship for almost 2 years due to few issues. We both were dying to be with each other. But now we are back together and staying together and her husband is also together and he doesn't have any kind of problem me staying with them. The problem is My girlfriend says she is not interested in me and always picking on me and gives me hell. I left everything and came back to her and now she always ignores me and shows no interest in me. She doesn't allow me to touch her, hold her, cuddle her nothing to do with her. It has nothing to do with her husband. He is perfectly fine and doesn't interfere between me and her. I am really disturbed about our relationship and the way things are going. What do I do to get back her interest and for her to fall in love with me? I am sure she is not seeing any one or she is interested in her husband. We planned we would get married and get settled but nothing seems to be working now. Please advise what do I do now?
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (13 July 2007):
 Hi hun,
You can't make anyone fall in love with you, you really need to talk to her ask her why she is treating you this way, you can't put right when you don't know what you have done can you?????/
If you have tried and she still brushes you off babes then I am sorry to say but it may be time to be thinking of walking away, I know how hard it is but you don't deserve to be treated that way, you sound a caring man who deserves they same kind of caring love back don't you sweet?
You be strong try talking to her then the rest is up to you,
I wish you well, let me know how you get on babes,
Love Donna xx
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reader, jomana  +, writes (12 July 2007):
 well maybe she is mad at you for doing something , why don't you face her .. ask he why is she treating you diffrently . even if she stopped loveing you atleast know the reason so when you move on you don't do the same mistake again good luck
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reader, romanticlover +, writes (12 July 2007):
 god how many men does this woman have in her life get out of there and get out now you dont need a woman like that
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reader, flower girl +, writes (12 July 2007):
 How can you be sure she is not seeing anyone else because at the end of the day wether it was due to family pressures or not, she is living with her husband and her boyfriend.
If she is treating you in this way, why are you wanting to stay there with her.
You can't make her fall in love with you and like you have said yourself nothing is working, so maybe you should think about walking away and moving on with your life.
Take care.xx.
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